Who am I?

I am the son of so and so, husband of or wife of so and so, father or mother of so and so.

All these relations exist so long as you live in this world. After death you take your next birth and the same relations with another set of persons.

In one life we get one set of relations, one family, one name etc. As children we wear one type of dress and as we grow up we wear different kinds of dress.

These repeat in every incarnation.

Before you take up a birth and when you change from this birth to the next what is your state?

There has been so many births and lives. Who were you in those lives?

At the close of every birth we do not fulfill our desires. To fulfill our unaccomplished desires we take up the next birth. Once a man leaves this world, that is he dies without having any unfulfilled desires or cravings left in his mind there will not be any more births for him in this world.

So we should not get depressed or get tired in our life in this world.

A master sends his servant on certain job till the servant satisfactorily completes the job entrusted to him, the master sends him again and again in the same job.

Similarly if a person dies without fulfilling all the desires it is sent  again to the same world to fulfill its desires which have not been fulfilled in its previous birth.